Disclaimer: all photos you will see are from my phone, which means they are not of great quality.
So anywho, let's talk about head coverings. Cancer patients have a plethora of head covering options. You have hats, scarves, wigs, paper bags... you know, whatever catches your eye.
And before I went bald, I really had no idea what I'd want to wear. I had a suspicion that I'd be more of a bald kind of girl, but I didn't want to go bald and realize I had an ugly head and THEN have to go shopping for stuff.
Because that would be seriously traumatic.
So instead, I went wig shopping before I went bald.
Now, I'm struggling with how to describe the thought of going wig shopping. Maybe just sit and consider this for a moment if you're a female that has never shopped for hair before. Does the idea appeal to you? Does it totally freak you out?
I was freaked out/mystified by it. How, exactly, does one shop for hair? Where does one go? Do you just go into a shop full of wigs and try on everything you see? What is the difference between human hair and synthetic? Does synthetic LOOK fake? Where can I even find a wig shop?
Let's just say I was apprehensive about the whole event. Because I like to KNOW about stuff before I shop for it. And I knew NOTHING about wigs. And the thought of going into a hair shop with wigs of every size, shape, color, and texture was overwhelming.
But it had to be done. So the first question was WHERE to shop for one. I went online and looked up wig shops in Minneapolis. And found 2. And they didn't have websites (I totally judge stores by websites). And they sounded more like costume shops than wig shops (based on the store reviews on google).
So I googled "cancer wig shop" (or something like that) and found out about medical wig shops.
A medical wig shop is a private, appointment only wig shop. You get one-on-one time with the wig shop owner who teaches you everything you need to know about wigs and helps you find one that will work for you. I felt like God had answered a prayer I wasn't even aware of having prayed.
So I called the proprietor of "It's Still Me" wig shop in Minneapolis. Her name is Jan and she is a cancer survivor. She could fit me in right away, so I drove over there (while waiting for my mom's flight to come in) and went through the wig shopping process. It was fabulous. Jan had the personal experience to educate me on what to expect when my hair did fall out. She understood that I knew NOTHING about wigs and took the time to educate me on simple things like how to put it on, brush it, and how to wash it. She even had a GREAT selection of scarves and hats and taught me how to tie them and wear them. It was exactly what I needed.
It made the idea of living bald for a few months alot less scary because now I had options. If I didn't feel like being bald for a day, I now had a variety of things I could do to cover it. It was liberating and made me a whole lot more comfortable with the idea of being bald.
So here is the wig I picked up:
So I went to see the stylist and he cut my wig.
And I hated it. It was big and bushy and I looked like a soccer mom with a bad haircut.
So I went back. And he shortened it a little more and thinned it out a little so it wasn't quite so BIG.
Here is the result:
Then I found out that the American Cancer Society gives away FREE wigs (I paid for the one above). And I thought to myself, I would love to get a really fun wig. Something totally unexpected. Something I can just have fun with. Why not?
And this is what I got:
So those are my wigs. I don't wear either all that often. I pretty much just wear them when I have a work event or when I just feel like "blending in" with other people.
Next, we can discuss hats... I have alot of very fun hats!